Relief Counter re-visited....

'Lops, if u were out with your ex yg br break up and u wore the shirt that ur ex gave u. Apa erti? Jawab saja k. Cos i dnt knw whr n how to start my conversation:)'

'emmm...that depends on how the relationship after the break up. if the ex is the cincai type (like me), it means nothinglah...'

'Wht if ur ex is willing to see u for dinner bt after that dia tidak reply ur msgs and ignoring u?'

'susa jg sa mau cakap owh. but it seems that the ex is just not interested lah. then again, i don't know the real story so i might be wrong lah..'

'o, d girl yg break up with him and suddenly he changed mcm dia teda feeling with the gal. bt went out with the girl after 3 weeks of breakin up'...

'why would he wanna do dat? something's missing here...'

'Lops ok. Spare me ur time k. this wud be a lng message. XXX n i broke up and i yg ended it. buti regret so within days i cepat2 la to patch things back. 3 days after, we had dinner as friends cos besday dia. dinner was ok. quite. i invited him out again after bt he didn't think it was a good idea. After that we went silent for 3 weeks, then suddenly i invited him hm out and we had dinner. bt that day he told me he's leaving for KL for good in april. d next day, i told him i wanna c him but sd he's got wrk...i dont understand Lops, y must he see me knowing that i still like him? he shud hav just left to KL without havin to tel me ba.'

at this point, i wanted to say 'maybe he's just confused and dunno what to do...' bt decided to keep the opinion to myself.

bla bla bla bla 'is it possible to lose ur feelings in 3 days? He's very ego Lops, time kami break up, dia tdk text me but after sometime when i text him e.g i miss you..br lah dia reply yg dia juga. but maybe everything is all said and done, no point for me to have answers. If that's what you think he's over me than maybe its true'...

'it's possible to lose feelings in just 3 days, if he wasn't serious with you in the first place...besides, if he doesn't know how to appreciate you, than he's not worth being thought of and your time'...

break ups are normally hard when you're not ready to give up on the relationship just yet, or your feelings for the other person is still strong. and it's especially hard when you don't really know where you stand or why the break up happened. and sometimes, you just need someone to tell you what you wanna hear instead of the what is :). hopefully i said the right things....

ps: i am not a relief counter...look me up if you wanna feel bad about yourself. i'm just an insensitive bloke muahahahaha. no wonder i'm still single....hehehe :p