hiding behind the person who we really are can sometimes suck big time. the pretense of living the life of what other people might admire or living a life of what other people expect of us or what they wanna see can really take a toll on our life..
i know i've posted something like this in my previous entry, but i'm still not through with it :). it's still intriguing to wonder why people can't act, say or do what they want and just be themselves. sometimes, looking at those who dares to be themselves, those who doesnt give a rat's ass about what other people think can be annoyingly envious, and these people in my opinion are the happiest people in our damned population.
but then again, those who couldn't afford to be themselves should be given the hats off as well...it's not easy to be someone else for the sake of others and in some cases, just looking at them trying hard to retain their superficial identity can be quite heartrending.
look around you, look closely at your friends and family, and you're bound to notice that at least one of them are tough in the exterior for God knows why. there might be several reasons to it, probably the tough exterior serves as an armor or padding to the pain they are or will be experiencing..probably they're just afraid to succumb to their own emotions based on past experiences or they are probably born with low self esteem...
but how long can a person put up a facade, what would the impact be if they were to submit themselves to what they're afraid of? i bet if they did finally submit to their own self and things doesn't work out as what they expect to be, the hurt and pain would be magnified by many folds...
being human sucks..big time...
before i leave, i let you people ponder on these questions: what or who are we really afraid of? are we afraid of ourselves or what other people might think? are we willing to let go of what is dear to us for the sake of other people?
goodnight peeps...
i know i've posted something like this in my previous entry, but i'm still not through with it :). it's still intriguing to wonder why people can't act, say or do what they want and just be themselves. sometimes, looking at those who dares to be themselves, those who doesnt give a rat's ass about what other people think can be annoyingly envious, and these people in my opinion are the happiest people in our damned population.
but then again, those who couldn't afford to be themselves should be given the hats off as well...it's not easy to be someone else for the sake of others and in some cases, just looking at them trying hard to retain their superficial identity can be quite heartrending.
look around you, look closely at your friends and family, and you're bound to notice that at least one of them are tough in the exterior for God knows why. there might be several reasons to it, probably the tough exterior serves as an armor or padding to the pain they are or will be experiencing..probably they're just afraid to succumb to their own emotions based on past experiences or they are probably born with low self esteem...
but how long can a person put up a facade, what would the impact be if they were to submit themselves to what they're afraid of? i bet if they did finally submit to their own self and things doesn't work out as what they expect to be, the hurt and pain would be magnified by many folds...
being human sucks..big time...
before i leave, i let you people ponder on these questions: what or who are we really afraid of? are we afraid of ourselves or what other people might think? are we willing to let go of what is dear to us for the sake of other people?
goodnight peeps...
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